Previously, many Chinese students and I share all about how to achieve excellence and excellence, how to become leaders and launched. Recently, Sina chat rooms and I received many e-mail, I found more Chinese students need to know not how from good to great, but how to positive from confusion, from failure to success, from inferiority to self-confidence, from melancholy to joy, from fear to optimism.
An extreme example is the 2004 February occurred in Yunnan University Majiajue events. Majiajue brutally murdered his four classmates. But Ma Jiajue was arrested conversations with the psychologist's opinion, he should not be an evil person, but a lost , lack of self-confidence,UGG boots cheap, character enclosed children. He and many college students, eager to know how to be successful, confident and happy.
my letter is for those who want to succeed but that the success of reach, eager self-confidence but always self-pity, longing happiness but I do not know why the matter of students happy to see. hope this letter will give the reader a new one on the definition of success, encouraging readers to understand and recognize themselves to be a happy person. also hope This letter will help readers understand the success, confidence, happiness is a virtuous circle: where you can get from a successful self-confidence and happiness, where you can be happy from the self-confidence and success, from success and happiness where you can be confident.
success is a
you the best American writer William. Faulkner said: community have a common problem, according to the hope that everyone develop a model to measure whether each person the pursuit of wealth, bear the brunt of all walks of life, the success of the evaluation of a person, more personal wealth indicators. However, with the best results you will be able to contribute to society? certainly happy to have fame and fortune ?
true success should be diversified. success may be that you have created new wealth or technology, may be brought happiness for others you may be on the job you get the trust of others, may also found the back of your self, inoffensive way of life. The success of each person is unique. So, Ling Zhijun in its ;. In other words, success is not to be compared with others, but to understand themselves, explore their goals and interests, efforts in pursuit of progress, so that my every day better than yesterday.
the first successful step: take aim in life, be a proactive person
Sina chat room, when friends ask what my goal in life, I was so answered: have the greatest influence (impa * t), can help themselves, help families, help the country to help the world and help future generations, allowing them to enjoy better, more efficient, can bring them happiness and joy . is my best think-tank, it has helped me many times to solve the problem of work and life. I had to give up work in the United States and moved to China was founded Microsoft Research China, because I think the latter is more work influence, and my goal in life is more consistent. In addition, when I received a letter from the students lost letters, write them a letter, I would think: ; I have an open three, He said: wrong. In fact, the meaning of life is that there really is. In this way, he might not go astray by.
so, whether to the truth, in order to influence, or for pleasure, family, morality, tranquility, knowledge, innovation hh Once the goals in life, you can like My goal in life, like under the guidance and decisively to make major life decisions. each person's life goals are unique. The most important thing is, you have to take the initiative to take their own life goals. But do not be rushed, more not to pursue so-called , because only one person can tell what your goal in life, that person is you. only one place you can find your target, that is your heart.
I suggest you close your eyes, the first one came back ideal for recording your head down, because the answer without thinking is the most sincere. Or, you can look back at your happiest, most rewarding of life is, is there something in common? they are likely to is the most motivating your life goal. In addition, you can imagine, fifteen years later, when you reach the perfect state of life, what kind of environment you will be in? what kind of work? one of the most fun What things? Of course, you may wish to talk about family and friends, listen to their views.
the success of the second step: to try new areas to explore your interests
you to be the best The most important thing is to play to their full potential, pursue the most interesting and the most passionate thing. When you are interested in a certain area, you will be walking to class or taking a bath when they never forget it, you're in the areas more likely to succeed. Furthermore, if you have passion in this area, you may neither eat nor sleep for it, think of an idea even when sleeping,Discount UGG boots, will jump. this time, you are no longer working for success, but In order to can do it well, you definitely do not release all of the potential. So I do not agree with every student pursuing the most popular professional, I think that everyone should understand their interests, passions and abilities (ie, EQ mentioned in the to human development and improvement of life and excitement. professional. If he left school at Harvard to continue reading and become a professor of mathematics, can you imagine his potential will be suppressed and to what degree? 2002, Bill. Gates, Microsoft's 25 years in leadership, but decided to Chief Executive Officer's job to Ballmer, because the only way he can participate in the work of his favorite mm as chief software architect, specializing in software technology innovation. Although the Bill. Gates is an excellent CEO, But when he he was named chief software architect, his direction of the company made a significant contribution to technology and, more importantly, he is more passion, more happiness, and which also inspired the morale of all employees.
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